While I’m aware that there are devoted and loving husbands out there, I’m also aware that men loves to have fun at the expanse of their marriage. After a few years being married to their wife, sometimes men tend to seek entertainment outside. Their excuse are usually they are stressed with things that’s going on at home, the kids are too noisy, bored with fucking the same woman for years, and so the list goes on. And since I’m quite tired and wary when I’m writing this article, I’ll cut the small talk and go straight to the point. Here’s some rather common things those cheating husband does when they are cheating on you:
- They start off with they wanted to have more time for themselves, to be with friends, to socialize, to relax without disruption, etc. Wives, beware, that doesn’t always mean that they really want to have more time for themselves, sometimes they are doing something naughty and not nice outside.
- When the wife got quite pissed off with their ‘not wanting to spend more time’ with the family attitude, they started to use going out with close friends to have supper or tea as excuse.
- The husbands will make sure to use their friend’s phone calls to the max. Letting the wife listen to their conversation and make sure the wife thought that they are going out with a male friend for a period of time.
- They started to spend more time with their so-called best friend. Take this as an example, the ‘best friend’ would seek the husband out at least every 2-3 days once. (usually, the best friend are covering up for them during those bloody calls)
- Your husband stays out til wee hour. Until 5am to 6am in the morning, at least, and sneak in, hoping that you’re already asleep and do not realize what time he came back home.
- They get very agitated when you ask them questions, and their mood turn sour when you started to curse their best friend or colleague for not understanding that they shouldn’t ask your husband out so often as he is a family man.
- The husband becomes less interested in the wife and started to blame the wife on every single things that goes wrong in his bloody daily life.
- The husband started to encourage the wife to change. Like her dressing, her hairstyle, her perfume, etc.
- Another sign is when the husband started to reject ‘unwanted’ phone calls when the wife is around, only sms or return calls moments later.
- They get VERY protective of their handphones. Even at home, they keep their handphones at very close proximity, not wanting the wife to see who was calling or check their sms without them knowing.
- They quickly delete sms from their blasted and shameless girlfriend when you’re beside them, and their intention is only one thing, which is to keep the wife in the dark about their extra-marital relationship.
- Their money is always never enough,and when you question them about it, they’ll point to the petrol station.
- Their phonebills skyrocketed.
- The husband will not expect you to pay a surprise lunch visit, or look for them when they are out during his ‘male-bonding’ time.
- The husband gets more and more fussy about his appearance. If before, he look rather sluggish when he goes out of the house, now he’s smartly dressed. He’s even wearing cologne and perfume, even though he’s never been a fan of those fancy water.
- They started to be EXTRA nice to you.
- They started to suggest you to go out with your own friends more and socialize.
- The husband suddenly have a lot of clients and meetings to attend to.
- They didn’t come back home to sleep, but told the wife that they fell asleep in the car because they are too tired to drive home after their ‘regular’ drinking session, etc.
- They suddenly have a lot of outstation trips.
- They get very defensive when you found out about their girlfriend.
- And they get very pissed off with that they’re willing to launch war with when you confronted their girlfriend and upset her.
- In bed, it’s no longer about making love. It’s purely sex and the need to unload. No passion or emotional involvement whatsoever. Just enter, unload, and get off from her.
- The man started to make excuses about having sex with the wife and refuse her. He’s tired, not in the mood, and all sort of excuses are given.
- They keep their credit cards bills within their clutches.
- They started to claim that they watched certain movies with you when you’re sure as hell that you haven’t watch it yet.
- There’s always spare clothes in the car that you don’t know of.
- They are always on the go, and staying at home is like a punishment to them.
- They spaced out pretty often.
- They started to feel that parenting is solely the wife’s responsibility and they found the kids are such nuisance.
- They’re always late when they’re suppose to pick you up from somewhere, but they’re move like a bullet when their friend called them out.
The ones listed above is probably just a few signs that a wife should be aware of when you suspect your husband is cheating on you. I’m sure you guys knows more, so feel free to add.
Cleffairy: So, your husband is cheating on you. You know it, but kept quiet for the sake of your marriage and the children. But, how do you know when he is crossing the line?