I haven’t been feeling inspired these days, and I’ve come to realized why. No, it’s not because my sex life is boring and I’m brain dead or anything. I realized it’s because I’ve been dead busy these days trying to put my life together to even sit down and have a cuppa tea.This is by far the worst and busiest year in my life. Too much things to do, too less time.
If you have been following my blog since last year, you might realized that I’m usually inspired when I’m relaxing over my cuppa tea. Well, believe it or not, life have been depriving me for the goddamn source of caffeine. It’s been some time since I sit down, breathe and sip my cuppa tea while I do some deep thinking.
Yours truly just had a couple cuppa tea a moment ago while her eyes are glued to the idiot box, and guess what? That bloody cup of caffeine yours truly glunk down her throat is flowing down her blood veins and now she can’t sleep. Cleffairy is now officially caffeine overdosed, and hell she cannot sleep, and cannot think about anything else but write about sex to pass her night time.
All right, let’s do it, people. No, his is not an invitation to have sex… but an invitation to TALK about sex. It’s been awhile since I bring up this topic, isn’t it? Well, let’s proceed, shall we?
People have sex all the time. Everyone have sex. Any way they want it. Any where they feel like doing it, and any time they feel like doing the gloriously exhilarating deed. For some lucky few, their sex life is hot and passionate, while great numbers of others, sex is just the deed that they performed half-heartedly so that they don’t deprive their other half of their conjugal rights.
People have sex for many reasons. Most of the time, it’s simply because as men and women have needs for it, and it does not matter if it’s a fling or just a one night stand. Sex, for some, it’s a great release, be it physically, mentally or emotionally. Some people needs to have sex just to forget their frustration in life, as only during sexual intercourse, they would not think about what’s troubling them. Problems flew out of the window as they rocks the bed, the sofa, whatever.
Believe it or not, sex, for some, can have the effect of a therapy. I believe, in some part of the world where people are more open about the subject-our western counterparts, uses sex as therapy. Look it up if you are interested. Yes, sex is some kind of a therapy. It may be bad for the soul… but yeah, for some, sex works wonder for their body and mind. For some, sex left them satiated afterwards, provided, their partner’s performance is up to their standard.
To put it bluntly, most people have sex because of lust, not necessarily because they are committed to their partner and wants to do the happily ever after and grow old together part of the story. Sad, but true, but that’s a fact. Some people just have sex for the heck of it.They need it, so they find willing…or heavens forbids, unwilling partner to satisfy their lust.
For some lucky others, they don’t have sex, but they made love to their partner. For these people, it’s all about consummation of love, not just a mind blowing sex or merely a session where they exchange bodily fluids with each other. They do so because they wanted to please and give pleasure their lover, partner or spouse. They made love, and it’s all about giving and not taking.They use their body to express their emotion to one another in a way that words can never do.
They put their other half’s needs before their own, and they feel more satisfied when their partner are throughly pleasured with their stamina and their ‘creativity’. They take time to arouse one another and explore each other’s body as if it they are doing it for the first time.
Now, that is making love. There’s huge differences between sex and making love. People who wants to make love to their partner are usually determined to get things rights, even if they have been together for a decade. They are emotional and intuitive, not to mention powerful and passionate. Their goal is simply to excite.
I know many of you out there are in a relationship. Some of you have lovers and most are of you are married. Some of you may have high libido and you may have the stamina to do it 2-3 times a day while the pitiful others don’t get to have fun on the bed as often as they want because the brats and mundane chores get in the way.
How many times you do it in a day, a month or a year is not the question here. My question here is, do you have sex of made love to your partner? Care to share your views with me on what you think about sex and making love?
Cleffairy: Do you fall in love or in lust?