Some women simply asked for it!

Men are going to love me for this, and women are going to hunt me down and bash me up for betraying my own kind. But then again, I have to write about this. Those teeny weeny bunnies in my head have been knocking and plotting my death. Those buggers have been pestering me to write about this. All right, enough said, let’s get to business, shall we?

You know, it is not fair to blame a man for his infidelities sometimes. I don’t encourage extra-marital relationship or even condone it. But sometimes, I feel that men have to no choice but to seek love and comfort elsewhere. A lot of women will say that their husband’s affairs are unjustified, but then again, have you ever thought of looking into the mirror and reflect on yourself?

Let’s just admit it, readers. Some women are simply bitchy! All they do when their men goes home to them is open their big smelly mouth to nag and scold non stop. Their husband haven’t even take off his shoes or even reach the sofa to sit down, and yet those bloody bitches is already sputtering fucking nonsense that could make the deaf scream in agony. And when their husband tells them to stop, they continued on, and there’s no chance in hell they will stop their bitchy pie hole from nagging. Unless of course, it’s the end of the world.

These kind of bitches expects a lot from everyone around her. She wants everyone to listen to her and give her the respects she thinks she oh, so deserved. She expects people to treat her like an Empress Dowager, and bow down to her every whims, and yet no matter what people do to please her, she’ll still be unsatisfied.

And instead of being grateful for being tolerated, she asked for more, and find faults in people. In other words, no matter what her man and the people around her do to please her, she’ll still say it’s not good enough, and continue to bitch about it and demand for more. Nothing could satisfy her, and whatever she says must be treated like a decree, including what you should and should not eat, and what you should wear and shouldn’t wear.

Relationship gets more and more worst with each passing day. Tension is in the air because communication becomes scarce as it’s not possible to talk when you’re not even allowed to speak up your mind.

Honestly, if I am a man who is married to this kind of woman, who can be classified as a mother of all bitches and whore, I’d probably leave her or divorce her too. Either that, or get a mistress to sooth me and make me feel like a human instead of some worthless piece of shit who is worthy of nothing but scolding, nagging and lecturing.

These kind of women are the kind who will cry foul and puts the blame on the men when she’s ditched. She’ll go around telling how pitiful she is, having to face life and raising the brats all by herself, when the truth is she refused to let the poor man even see her brats. People, not knowing what really transpired in their marriage,  of course will blindly sympathize with her, saying the man is an irresponsible jackass who left the family.

What’s worst, these kind of women will raise their children to hate their poor father and tell the entire family how she had been mistreated, when it’s the actual case is the other way around. She abused her man mentally, and yet, she goes around whoring, telling people that another woman stole her husband and something of that sort. She also goes around, brainwashing the kids, saying that their father left them because he refused to be responsible when in truth, she gave hell when the man wanted to see the children.

Things goes on and on, and will get worst. She’ll make everyone’s life miserable. Nobody is good enough in her eyes, and her children will have problem when they are married and have family of their own, because this sort of bitch will give troubles to her son or daughter in laws, simply because in her eyes, they are never good enough.

In their eyes, their children’s spouse are not rich enough, not pretty enough, not a good wife, not a good mother, not a good husband and father, and the list goes on. And when they didn’t receive the respect from their children in laws the way they did from other people in their lives, they go berserk and goes all out to destroy their own children’s marriage and happiness. Why? Because they think just because they are older, they know all, and what they says, goes, and when they don’t get any respect from their children’s spouse, they get pissed.

They are horrible, worst kind of bitches, I must say. Manipulative as well, as they tend to get pity from people around her. But, you know what? When men leave these kind of women, I have no pity whatsoever for her. Why? It’s simple. I am not a man, but I know men are human too. Sometimes, men just want to be appreciated and have some peace of mind when they are at home.

Who can take it if they are constantly degraded? By their wife, no less. If you can’t find find comfort and peace of mind at home, why not seek it outside? The damn bitch can’t seems to keep her mouth shut, and the synergy at home is not conductive for anything, especially love and romance.

So, why not? You don’t get mind blowing, hot and crazy sex anymore, cuz that bitch never bother to dress up to please you. What’s more, those little bastards who have the cheek to call you father seems to give you endless headache as well. There’s simply no peace and there’s no way to relax at home.

So, really, why not? Seek comfort elsewhere. Find someone who can really make you feel good about yourself. Find someone who at least will try to listen instead of just talk all the time.

People will damn you for your infidelities, that’s for sure, but then again, what do they know about living in such environment where you constantly need to put up with a bitch’s nagging? They’ll never know how it’s like to live under the same roof with such a bitch unless they are in the same shoes as you are. So, why give a damn of what people think, anyway? You life has always been about her, and what did she give you in return? Not even peace.

Men loves to feel like a hero of a woman’s dreams. Men are the sort of creature who needs to feel good about themselves. Maybe men won’t admit this, but most depend on women to make them feel masculine and macho.

When he lavish her with all her whims and fancy and yet the wife didn’t appreciate him and nags him for more instead, they won’t feel as if they have achieved anything. Instead, they will feel like a loser. And if a man can’t get romance out of their wife when they initiate it, that’s probably worst than erectile dysfunction.

So, yes…if I am a man who is married to this sort of bitch, I would leave her without a doubt, children or no children. You can always fight for custody and deal with your guilt later. Either leave and find someone who will appreciate those little things that you do and stay sane, or stay and live a life of a castrated dog.

Cleffairy: Some women simply brought troubles upon themselves. You can’t blame the men for everything. Look at yourself in the mirror, and see for yourself.

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38 Responses to Some women simply asked for it!

  1. Christopher says:

    Yeah, but for some women la. The hubby was so stressed up with work all he got was all those nagging from the wife. Anyway, there are many reasons for infidelity and this is one of them. There are still men who out fooling around and leaving the wife at home.

    • cleffairy says:

      LOL… of course this applies to some women onli lah… not all women are like this. But these kind… usually I’ll say serve them right for getting ditched, you know? Sometimes, I pity the men who are treated that way by women.

  2. CHVoon says:

    first time coming here….

    woo… i agree with what you wrote! it is true!
    However, i think both side play important role as well.

    You are female right… why you will write this post? hehehe
    i think most of this kind of woman are full time housewife!
    They have a lot of time and think sometimes bad!

    • cleffairy says:

      Hi CHVoon, thanks for visiting. LOL…hmmm, so far women haven’t flame me and find ways to bash me up yet for writing this. But then, I wrote what I felt is right. We can’t go around blaming men for their infidelities all the time when we don’t really know what really transpired in their marriage. Some men are absolute darlings. Work hard for the family, and yet, they are not appreciated.

      *snort* I am definitely a woman. You know Claire, rite? She can definitely tell you that I’m all woman. LOL…

      I wrote this because I know such woman, and there’s no nid to say that this woman in question makes everyone’s life miserable with her ‘higher than thou’ attitude. Her children and close kin may not agree with me cuz they’ve been brainwashed by her, but the way I see it, she’s been using people’s sympathies to get whatever she wants.

      People pity her? Well, I don’t. In fact, I’d say, she deserved whatever happened to her. I used to pity this woman too, but once I knew her, I immediately knew why her husband left for other woman. No man alive could tolerate living under the same roof with this sort of nagging, domineering woman who constantly made people feel that they are lesser creature.Wish I could just put some smelly socks into her bloody mouth!

      I am a woman and a wife too, but it doesn’t mean I’ll have to take sides with women who are wives all the time. Not when I know sometimes, when things happened to break a marriage, it’s not always the men’s fault. Women have their faults too.

  3. Merryn says:

    Just to let you know I’m here.. Eugene told me about you :D But I’m in a hurry and hav no time to read your post as yet.. I’ll come back again tomorrow and read them thoroughly.. Nite.. :)

    • cleffairy says:

      Eh? Got one submerryn sesat over here. LOL…

      Hi Merryn, how are you doin? Yerr… Eugene told you about me? Aiyooohhh… what you people gossip ah? *blush* Dun worry bout it, Merryn, take your time. LOL… give all my love to Ethan, ok?

  4. manglish says:

    HAAHAHAHHAAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHA love it love it love it…but then u must understand sometimes some man just love a bitchy woman hahahahaaha

    • cleffairy says:

      *sigh* My female readers are going to kill me for this. Thank heavens no one knows how I look like. LMAO…. But then again…this is what I feel. LOL…

      Neway, manglish, there’s many kind of bitchiness. This kind is the one that turn people’s world upside down and yet will blame people around her for it.

      Men loves bitches… wud to do… some men are simply masochist! LOL…*rawl*

  5. calvin says:

    for this post, i love you even more……lolz :P
    thankfully, my rachel is nothing of this sort…else, i’ll end up going out with you….hahahaha

  6. junsern says:

    whoa… angry post… but i totally agree wit u… not all but most of it…

    • cleffairy says:

      LOL… hi Junsern. Thanks for dropping by. Ahahaha… I just feel it’s not fair to blame men on everything when marriage crumbles… not when sometimes it’s the women themselves who drives their men out of the house.

      • junsern says:

        yeah haha sometimes everyone put the blame on us guys! sometimes women plays a huge role to in crumbling… mistrust, jealousy etc etc.. sometimes they think so much that its just not logical already!

      • cleffairy says:

        That’s wud happen when women get too coop up at home. Imaginations runs wild. If this is the case… women should take action…do something that will make them feel good about themselves. If she’s a housewife, she should go out and BREATHE. Mistrust? Jealousy? Heck…why not dress up and make your man have a taste of it too? I know that’s what I do when I started to feel jealous or suspecting something. I flaunt myself and go have fun and let him see that I’m still a hot chic. Don’t care the husband. If he really dono how to appreciate me, there’s many more out there.

  7. eugene says:

    ya the girls are going to hunt you down and bash you up, i shall remain non partisan on this..hahahahaha. By the way, sister i am under attack in my blog , so funny lah………

    • cleffairy says:

      Ohhh, well, bro… that’s wud happen when you’re well known in the blogger’s circle. LMAO… that is why I try to remain low profile and NEVER reveal how I really look like on the net. Dangerous ohh… this kind of unwanted attention. What’s more, if I become ‘famous’ like you… I’ll probably be in a more horrible position. LOL…cuz, I made enemies everywhere. I daresay even Msian gov oso will drag me to ISA for some of my ‘tales’…. aiyerr!

      Anyway, I know there’s war in your blog. Same ppl. I can use this kind of people for my benefit, actually… LOL…You know what to do if things get out of hand. :P You’re the man. Start to moderate. I dun fear your sanity. You’re cool kinda guy. I fear for your visitors. Most of them are delicate in nature. LOL…I’m afraid that feller will target their blogs after not having desirable respond from you. *sigh* Dun think most of em have wud it takes to fight back… not all oso can naik angin like me. Most of em are the sweet kind…

  8. suituapui says:

    Hear! Hear! Can’t ALWAYS blame the man…sometimes it’s the woman’s fault for the reasons you’ve mentioned…and sometimes, the man’s weak/not strong/smart enough and falls into the seductions of the other woman…but sometimes, the man IS to blame! But all things considered, can’t simply generalised that it is the man’s fault.

    • cleffairy says:

      Of course cannot always blame the men all the time when the marriage goes awry. Sometimes, women are at fault too. Not all men are bad, you know? Just some are complete ass!

  9. CHVoon says:

    Cleffairy: come back to read the comment you leave for me…

    i have another comment… but it is up to u. the font size is too small… very hard to read… after finish read your comment for me, i feel that my eyes a bit pain…

    just a comment… dont take it so serious ok… dont spamming me hahaha

    • cleffairy says:

      …. why would I go spam you la? Haiyorr… actually, I oso know that the fonts is small… but it comes with the layout… I dono how to change. =.= So paiseh… before this my articles oso the fonts are in teeny size. *SIGH* That one can change, but the comments like cannot change. :( I oso wanna change wan… my eyes oso like ah ma liddat, cannot really see oso. But in the meantime, please bear with me… ahaha… i slowly go choose better blog layout… see which one BIG BIG fonts… =.=

  10. kelvin says:

    Totally agreed! One more point, these women will have something common before marriage… They are like little kittens, listening to men, saying they will endure hardship with them, they will never spend their money, they are so gentle before marriage. men should beware of these women!

    • cleffairy says:

      LOL… agreed. But I diff… before married I oredi damn fierce…I dun give face wan =.= tone down a lil after married tho.

  11. kelvin says:

    Btw, can i exchange links with u?

  12. Merryn says:

    Ok, so the ‘lost’ submerryn found her way back here. I love this post, honestly. It made me reflect on what I do when my hubs gets home. Do I take his bag for him? Do I sit him down to rub his shoulders? Do I even ask him how was his day? NO! All I did was gladly hand over Ethan to him so that I can blog! Gosh.. Cleffairy, you have put some senses in me. Tonite, I shall treat him better and tomorrow will be a brand new day. I’ll ask him how his day was before ‘dumping’ Ethan to him and continue blogging! ;P he he..

    • cleffairy says:

      Merryn, for a moment, I tot you’re going to shoot your torpedo at me for this entry. But… we have to admit it, don’t we? Sometimes, women do drives their men away from them. I know such woman. And frankly speaking, I can’t take her domineering attitude. She always cries foul as her husband take a mistress. But I can’t blame her husband. No one can stand such attitude in long term.

      LOL… Merryn, I dun blame you for handing Ethan to your hubby. You’ve probably been wanting to do your own things too after having your day dedicated to the boy. It’s understandable. Mummies needs some breaks too! If our lives only revolves around our children, career and housework only, we’re better off in the nuthouse!

      Go ahead… treat him better abit… but dun so over, later he wonder why you’re suddenly so out of character. Take small steps…romance him abit, den DUMP Ethan onto him…he’ll probably be smitten enuff to take care of the boy den. Ahahahaha… den you can have more time to urself! LMAO… (I’m evil!)

      Actually, men are like children. you need to bribe them and coax em with sugary words abit, some little massage, or maybe a cuppa tea den they’ll have kingdoms laid at your feet. LOL…

  13. jen says:

    if i were a man and i married such woman you described, i’ll divorce her without giving it a second thought. don’t understand why such woman loves to find faults with simply anyone in the house and can’t let everyone live peacefully. some women are good in pretending though. after they got married, they begin to reveal their colors.

    • cleffairy says:

      Ahemm… finally Jen is here been wanting to see ur reaction… lmao… actually, if you read carefully hor… you’ll realize that I’ve been bitching about a certain 8por in ur blog oso.(shhh… you know, i know, enuff d, oter ppl nonid to kno)

      Ahahahahahah! Cannot blame her husband for leaving her lorrr…I say, padan muka, in fact!

      Yeah, some women are very good in pretending. Before married, sweet like hell. After married, gives hell. After divorce, revert back… goes around looking pitiful when in actual fact, they are just a bitch. People simply give her wudever she wants becoz too lazy to deal with her nonsense, but still not enuff for her. She want more. Pukimak bitch la…dono how to respect other people’s rights oso… humph… tok bout her oni makes me have the sudden urge to play Counter Strike ah! Shooot… shoot ppl til DIE. DIE DIE DIE DIE, YOU BITCH!

      Can cook, can clean, tink u damn good and oter ppl is not ah? MCCB! Ppl avoiding her like a plague, she oso dono ah! (or issit pretend dono?)

      • jen says:

        yes my dear cleffy, i also know who are you trying to point out, heh heh heh =P you know what, you inspired me to blog about another person in my family after reading this post of yours. i need some time to draft it as i’m not good putting things in words.

        women no doubt is quite good in pretending. before and after marriage, fulamak 180 degrees different. scary like hell.

      • cleffairy says:

        Yeah… I am a woman, but I have to say, that women are pretty scary. Before and after, totally two different thing. You, bitching about ‘that woman’? Now, I must head over your blog and see! LOL…

  14. A very interesting post. I must say I got to say that most are true. I have met many ladies whom you described above.The only thing that is untrue will be my case.

    When I finally left ex, after he was with some other women, he confessed to our friends that “Shakira has never treated me badly. Always with respect and love.”

    I am happily remarried now.

    Have a great weekend!

    • cleffairy says:

      Hi Shakira. It’s good to finally see you hopping over here. LOL… been seeing you in Eugene’s blog.

      Dun feel offended. I know sometimes, even when a wife treat her husband with love and respect, it doesn’t mean that the husband will stay with the wife…he might have a change of heart or something, and the love and passion faded away. Some things might have change…all is fair in love and marriage, actually.

      I am so glad things goes well for you and you are happily remarried. You’re one lucky woman. Not every woman are as lucky as you to be happily remarried. LOL…

  15. U-Jean says:

    My two cents worth on communications. Communication has to happen both ways. If communication break down happens, then both parties have a role to play in order to resolve it. If the woman nags, then she probably just wants something to be done. But definitely it’s not the best way to do it.

    Communication needs sustained effort as well as maturity. One too needs crisis management skills as well as to never take their partners for granted.

    Tough job. Best of luck.

    I do not agree that that women deserve to be cheated on because they nag and bitch and it is their fault that some men cheat as many other factors may come into play. I do agree however that constant pressure and nagging makes the partner and the home less attractive and therefore, one might seek for comfort elsewhere.

    Demands of work and economic pressure does put a strain on relationship as well. Work can take up family time as well as dilute motivation to solve family problems which too contributes to the cracks developing in the relationship.

    So, are should we still putting the blame on women?

    • cleffairy says:

      U-jean… if you know who am I talking about and living under the same roof with her for even one day, you’ll agree with me that she deserves it. It is IMPOSSIBLE to communicate with this woman.

      It may not applied to other women, but I still say it applied to her. She doesn’t allow people to talk, and force people to do things her way. She does this with everyone, not just her husband. She don’t appreciate what people to for her to make her happy, and all she know is to tell people to shut up and listen to her all the time. She does the same thing too when she goes to people’s house. Tell people what to do in their own house and how to lead their lives. Relatives avoid her like a plague, and yet she couldn’t take a hint! She’s not the kind who do what the Romans do when she’s in Rome.

      How do you suppose we communicate with people who simply do not give chance to others to even open their mouth? Or when we don’t do things her way, she’ll throw a fit and spread ill words about you? I used to PITY this woman. And respect her even, for raising her children on her own. Sympathize with her for being left by her husband. I thought her husband was a complete ass. But I get to know her husband as well…he’s nothing what she painted him to be in public or in the eyes of the relative. So I say, the man definitely deserves better.

      One day under the same roof with her, I know the reason why her husband left her. Some women really do deserves what’s coming to them, U-jean. You have yet to meet these kind of woman. God forbids you meet this kind of women. They WILL make your life miserable.

      Thank God I’m not her husband. I can’t say that I am not capable of murder after seeing her attitude and having left to deal with the damage that she left in her wake.

  16. donna says:

    yeah… totally agree with you.
    i’ve met some really really demanding women too, I have no idea how her husband could stand all her endlessly blabbering about tiny wee bee stuff for 1 whole day… =______=”

  17. nag nag nag, never mind lah….buy earplugs from Guardian….ha ha ha!

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